Welcome parties and rehearsal dinners

The night before has its own job.

The night before isn't a smaller version of the wedding. It's the one meal where everybody finally meets, and it should feel like the place they flew to — citrus on the table, colored glass, something loud enough to start a conversation. I keep the restraint for Saturday.

Five of these across Puerto Vallarta and Punta Mita, from a long table at Café des Artistes to a terrace in turquoise and lemon. Same standard as a wedding, spent differently: more color, and all of it on the table where people are actually sitting.

If you're bringing people this far, the night before is worth designing. Tell me the venue and the date.